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AllorNothing
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| LakersChamps04 wrote: | | what is wrong with asking why she lost interest? what if there is something you've been overlooking your when it came to relationships with women? I find that communication between man & woman, in any type of relationship, often solves the issue. I'm not saying she'll come back to you, but maybe there is something you aren't aware of. and knowing it, can help you with your future relationships.. |
She says he's too short, ugly and poor. |
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ContagiousInspiration
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I lost a beautiful woman.. Inside and out... That I still have a heavy heart about years and years later..
She knew what Love was and was such a special human being.
But as many have said... Asking her respectfully with courage and maturity what could..could've made your relations better is HUGE. she should respect that and what can go wrong... What if it is something easy that you can and wanted to do different anyways |
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Moses
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 10:04 am Post subject: |
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If she really means that much to you, why have you given up?
How do you know she lost interest and din't just get scared of hos fast it was moving, or some other kind of female emotion...
At least if you ask her and she tells you what went wrong, you can move on without wondering or maybe even have a chance at fixing it. That's if you really do care why, or actually want her back.
You don't really have anything to lose now in this situation, so you may as well ask her what's up.
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | GoldenThroat wrote: | | doughboy90650 wrote: | | Happened to me at 19. Broad had me in the room with the lights off listening to slow songs. Bad feeling. Women can be gangsta at times. |
I have this mental image of doughboy circa 1993 in the dark next to a box of tissues sniffling, "just another sad love song, racking my brain, like craaazy" |
I could be wrong. Maybe dough is right. Women have no mercy. They would rip your heart out and throw it a blender and it wouldn't even phase them |
See sometimes you need to talk it out, you answered your own question.  |
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ContagiousInspiration
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 10:14 am Post subject: |
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| lakers0505 wrote: | | LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | GoldenThroat wrote: | | doughboy90650 wrote: | | Happened to me at 19. Broad had me in the room with the lights off listening to slow songs. Bad feeling. Women can be gangsta at times. |
I have this mental image of doughboy circa 1993 in the dark next to a box of tissues sniffling, "just another sad love song, racking my brain, like craaazy" |
I could be wrong. Maybe dough is right. Women have no mercy. They would rip your heart out and throw it a blender and it wouldn't even phase them |
See sometimes you need to talk it out, you answered your own question. |
True words there
My favorite Buddhist Thich Nhat Hanh has a favorite couple sayings
"Are you really sure?"
"Do you really know?" |
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DALAKERSRULE
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 11:43 am Post subject: |
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OP post a picture of said female so we can tell you if she is worth your pain and suffering....
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| There are a ton of beautiful, modest women in the world. Don't forget that. Don't become fixated on the ones that don't want you. Go to the gym, just look at all the women you are missing out on yet here you are dreading one that doesnt want you anymore. Life moves on. |
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focus
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| Dladi Vidac wrote: | | Don't worry my dear little mango lassi, everything will be all right. |
Mango lassi? This dude Indian? |
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 1:33 pm Post subject: |
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| DALAKERSRULE wrote: | | OP post a picture of said female so we can tell you if she is worth your pain and suffering.... |
shes not a 10 by all means.... shes barely even a 5. however her mind is a 10 and we have ALOT in common. she is also fun and her family structure is also like mine... Like I said she is marriage material..
shes thick, butterface, and prolly wears too much makeup. but to me shes a 10 |
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 1:34 pm Post subject: |
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| focus wrote: | | Dladi Vidac wrote: | | Don't worry my dear little mango lassi, everything will be all right. |
Mango lassi? This dude Indian? |
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nickuku
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 1:50 pm Post subject: |
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | DALAKERSRULE wrote: | | OP post a picture of said female so we can tell you if she is worth your pain and suffering.... |
shes not a 10 by all means.... shes barely even a 5. however her mind is a 10 and we have ALOT in common. she is also fun and her family structure is also like mine... Like I said she is marriage material..
shes thick, butterface, and prolly wears too much makeup. but to me shes a 10 |
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DALAKERSRULE
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | DALAKERSRULE wrote: | | OP post a picture of said female so we can tell you if she is worth your pain and suffering.... |
shes not a 10 by all means.... shes barely even a 5. however her mind is a 10 and we have ALOT in common. she is also fun and her family structure is also like mine... Like I said she is marriage material..
shes thick, butterface, and prolly wears too much makeup. but to me shes a 10 |
Bro. if she is the one for you, things will work out. But like someone said above, you should ask her the reason why all of a sudden she stopped liking you. she either met someone else, or you did something that she didn't like.
get to the root of the issue, if you like her that much.
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ContagiousInspiration
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If you told her to view this thread
Or told her you feel this deeply for her
What would you lose
If you don't tell her how you feel...what would you lose
Can you accept never knowing |
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leor_77
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| Just see other girls - Don't let any girl take away your power, and most of your current obsessive feelings toward her are because of the rejection, not because of how you actually felt about her. |
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Roger O. Thornhill
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Just (bleep) her sister and her best friend, preferably both at the same time. It's that simple.  |
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fansincemagic
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| It sounds like you've got it and it's bad. You miss a day without your friend and your whole life is out of track. You know you've got it bad when you're stuck in the house and you don't want to have any fun...it's all you think about. |
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:07 pm Post subject: |
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| LakersChamps04 wrote: | | what is wrong with asking why she lost interest? what if there is something you've been overlooking your when it came to relationships with women? I find that communication between man & woman, in any type of relationship, often solves the issue. I'm not saying she'll come back to you, but maybe there is something you aren't aware of. and knowing it, can help you with your future relationships.. |
I don't know about you but my experiences with women is that they don't like guys asking them Why? I think it would make me look weak if I did...
I think women like if guys hold there ground.... |
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:10 pm Post subject: |
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| ContagiousInspiration wrote: | If you told her to view this thread
Or told her you feel this deeply for her
What would you lose
If you don't tell her how you feel...what would you lose
Can you accept never knowing |
she knows im a laker fan but she doesn't know I am this die hard... not sure how she will react seeing this thread especially after I said her looks are a 5 but her mind is a 10.... I think it would backfire |
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C M B
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:13 pm Post subject: |
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | LakersChamps04 wrote: | | what is wrong with asking why she lost interest? what if there is something you've been overlooking your when it came to relationships with women? I find that communication between man & woman, in any type of relationship, often solves the issue. I'm not saying she'll come back to you, but maybe there is something you aren't aware of. and knowing it, can help you with your future relationships.. |
I don't know about you but my experiences with women is that they don't like guys asking them Why? I think it would make me look weak... |
Sounds like you're barking up the wrong trees. If a woman (person) hesitates after being asked to explain his/her decisions in a moment of sensitivity and candor, he/she's damaged goods, and not worth a bag of piss*.
* - Are the piss jokes still a pain in your ass, 999? If so, I'll stop, because the rest of the forum seems to have absorbed the workload.
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C M B
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:14 pm Post subject: |
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | I said her looks are a 5 but her mind is a 10.... |
If her mind is a 10 then she wouldn't think you're weak for asking for reasoning.
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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| fansincemagic wrote: | | It sounds like you've got it and it's bad. You miss a day without your friend and your whole life is out of track. You know you've got it bad when you're stuck in the house and you don't want to have any fun...it's all you think about. |
tell me about it... im all (bleep) up... .. she just stopped texting me... now Its done... trying to stop thinking about her is tough |
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:21 pm Post subject: |
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| C M B wrote: | | LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | LakersChamps04 wrote: | | what is wrong with asking why she lost interest? what if there is something you've been overlooking your when it came to relationships with women? I find that communication between man & woman, in any type of relationship, often solves the issue. I'm not saying she'll come back to you, but maybe there is something you aren't aware of. and knowing it, can help you with your future relationships.. |
I don't know about you but my experiences with women is that they don't like guys asking them Why? I think it would make me look weak... |
Sounds like you're barking up the wrong trees. If a woman (person) hesitates after being asked to explain his/her decisions in a moment of sensitivity and candor, he/she's damaged goods, and not worth a bag of piss*.
* - Are the piss jokes still a pain in your ass, 999? If so, I'll stop, because the rest of the forum seems to have absorbed the workload. |
the thing is I notice the distance between us which started by her and I immediately backed off... sort of cut communication. not sure if I played the right move... what would u do? confront her?
naah the piss jokes are fine I am over it... kind of embrace it... its like my sig with the old timers here..... i.e. CC has her feminine problems, 24 has the strawberry stand..etc. I just happened to have Urine issue and an unique relationship with the homeless
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999
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:23 pm Post subject: |
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| C M B wrote: | | LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | I said her looks are a 5 but her mind is a 10.... |
If her mind is a 10 then she wouldn't think you're weak for asking for reasoning. |
I think that would be a gamble on my part... |
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | C M B wrote: | | LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | I said her looks are a 5 but her mind is a 10.... |
If her mind is a 10 then she wouldn't think you're weak for asking for reasoning. |
I think that would be a gamble on my part... |
She's not worth taking a gamble, yet she's worth making a thread on a forum frequented by highschool educated sports fans and religious homophobes?
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| Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2014 4:28 pm Post subject: |
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| LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | C M B wrote: | | LAKERSCMXCIX wrote: | | I said her looks are a 5 but her mind is a 10.... |
If her mind is a 10 then she wouldn't think you're weak for asking for reasoning. |
I think that would be a gamble on my part... |
Well, from where you're sitting you've got nothing to lose so it's not really a gamble to find out is it? |
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